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God tells us to leave Toxic People -- God says No Contact!



I assure everyone that we are not destined to stay in Toxic Relationships. It is not part of God's plan for our life. This is why it is very important for Believers to focus on their Relationship with God not a Religion with a certain Oranization of People. People can fail you and mess up your life, but God will not.

 

For anyone who feels a tremendous amount of stress and guilt about wanting to leave a Toxic Relationship or have left a Toxic Relationship and you still are not 100% sure you did the Right Thing and others are giving you grief about your decision to Self-Care & Self-Protect from harm and tell you to just "Turn the Other Cheek, Forgive and Forget, 7x70 etc. and that we must just endure harmful relationships -- There is Proof in the Truth that God wants us to Separate from Toxic People and this Great News removed my guilt & confirmed that No Contact is the necessary, right and blessed decision, and recommened by God Himself.

I have found where God tells us to leave Toxic People? And I am thrilled to share with you
Gensis 13 and Gensis 21: 8-13.


In the New Testament Matthew 10:34-39 Christ tells us to be set against the Toxic Person as in Good is set against Evil. This seems like a relationship that we want to be set free from that we do not want to have anymore, and the Lord says it is okay not to like this person because they are evil and harmful to us, so I want you to separate from them. This is a relationship that is harmful for us, we don't want, and Christ says to us it is okay to Let It Go. I want you to Let It Go, and I am telling you to Let It Go & that you have my blessing to Let It Go, because it is harmful to you. God loves us and does not want others to harm us. God wants us to protect ourselves from harmful Toxic People. God does not want us to be a Target for others to use and abuse. Abuse is NEVER apart of God's plan for us. God does not want us to continue to be a moving target for abuse.
Now if anyone tries to Guilt Trip you into leaving, you can give them both Old & New Testiment Scripture that proves God tells us to leave Toxic People and God says No Contact! I pray that this information will Bless you, if it has, please Share it Forward w/those who also struggle w/leaving.


As Christians, some of us feel hopelessly trapped in abusive relationships.  We think the Lord wants us to be endlessly patient and tolerant of the sins of others against us.    We believe that it is sinful to protect ourselves, and we believe that it is sinful to leave a family relationship.  We think that once we are born into a family, through no fault of our own, we are stuck with them, no matter what they do to us.  Some of us feel that once we start ANY relationship, family or otherwise, with someone who then turns out to be not the person we thought they were, it would be “un-Christian” for us to leave. 
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For some reason, we are under the misconception that we would not be good Christians if we did not stick it out and continue tolerating just about anything the other person says or does.
 
            Non-Christians, and some fellow Christians as well, fuel this belief, telling us we must always be forgiving even though the Bible never tells us to forgive unrepentant people.  Abusers and their enablers pull out all the stops in trying to make us feel guilty for removing ourselves from their destructive sphere of influence.   People who have never experienced abuse just don’t understand how a family relationship could be so toxic that we might have no choice but to leave.   Even those who have been abused themselves may criticize us for saying, “Enough!”.  But that is their problem, usually driven by feeling threatened or envious of our growth and increasing strength and independence.    Sometimes the old saying “misery loves company” is true.
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            Even if we have forgiven our abuser, the Bible does not instruct us to continue on in an abusive relationship.  We may want to give it a try if our abuser has truly repented and changed his ways, but many will be surprised to learn that even the most Godly and righteous Christians don’t have to keep going back for more.  Apparently this rocks some people’s worlds to the point where they resist accepting it.  But no one has the right to expect us to live our lives with abuse, or to judge us for leaving.
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Walking away from a relationship is never easy.  It will probably be the most difficult decision any of us will ever have to make.  It is a tremendous heartache and extremely painful.  Often, we still love our abuser even after many years of mistreatment.   We know that we will miss them and that it will hurt to let them go. It is so difficult to admit that we can love someone but not be able to have them in our lives.  Many of us struggle and suffer for years, or even for our entire lives, desperately trying every possible alternative to make leaving unnecessary.  Some of us wait until our mental and physical health is failing from the stress, or our own children are being adversely affected by our wicked relative, and it literally becomes a matter of survival.  Eventually we will have no choice, it will be either them or us.
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            Some of us get to the point where we finally find ourselves running screaming for the hills instead of closing the door calmly and moving on with dignity.  And then we find ourselves facing disapproval from assorted other relatives and acquaintances who never said a word in our defense all the years we were being abused, but come out of the woodwork when we finally take a stand to protect ourselves- just to criticize us for not continuing to tolerate even more abuse! 
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            Deciding when a relationship is never going to be healthy for you and understanding when you are never going to be treated with love or respect is the key to getting out before things become so extreme.    Counseling can be helpful if you can find the right counselor, and so is the support of good friends and loved ones.  We need others to bounce our feelings and thoughts off of.  We need people who truly care about us and want what’s best for us to give us their feedback and advice.  We need objective third parties to point out to us that which is so often obvious to outsiders, but which we ourselves cannot see because we are too close to the situation, or because we still have feelings for our abuser.  We need to have a loving support system in place so we know we will not be alone when we end our destructive relationship . 

 

 

 

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