The sign you find your moon in will be the best connection for a powerful friendship.
If Venus and Mercury's aspect is connected
favorably with the Sun and Moon then it adds to the blessings. The conjunction of the Sun and the Moon in synastry is a powerful connection. How
it plays out will have much to do with the condition of these luminaries in the individual charts. Attraction to one another
is usually there regardless, perhaps felt most by the Moon person initially. As a relationship develops between the two,
a dynamic inevitably emerges in which the Moon person plays a supportive role (sometimes a dependent or submissive role)
to the Sun person, who tends to lead the relationship in some manner.
Although both ways is powerful, in some cases when the man's Moon conjuncts the woman's Sun, problems arise. This
happens when the man feels uncomfortable in his role as the moody, sympathetic, and somewhat dependent Moon -- a role that
he might assign to women. In this day and age, however, either male or female playing the role of the Moon to the Sun may
feel some kind of resentment over time. Just as the Moon reflects the Sun's light, the Moon person is naturally inclined
to play a supportive and sometimes submissive role to the Sun. It doesn't need to be submissive--instead, it can be considered
supportive. How comfortable the Moon person is with this role is critical. In the same vein, the Sun person's comfort levels
with playing the role of the Sun should be considered as well. Not everyone wants to be the leader in a relationship!
With the conjunction, sextile, and trine,
the Moon person generally comes to rely upon and trust the Sun person's wisdom, spirit, and personal style. The Sun person,
in turn, depends upon the support of the Moon person.
With the trine
and the sextile between the Sun and the Moon in synastry, discomfort is less likely. Instead, there is a natural and flowing
compatibility. The individuals naturally cooperate with each other--a characteristic that is very welcome in most any romantic
relationship, as much energy can be squandered when individuals compete with one another. The only real problem with the
flowing aspects here is a certain level of complacency. For individuals who prefer a more aggressive and active atmosphere
in a relationship, the flowing aspects between the Sun and the Moon may not be stimulating enough. There is a real feeling
of being able to rely and depend upon each other, however, that most will appreciate.
With the conjunction, sextile, and trine, the Moon person
generally comes to rely upon and trust the Sun person's wisdom, spirit, and personal style. The Sun person, in turn, depends
upon the support of the Moon person.